The Science Behind Why Your Body Changes During Perimenopause â And What Actually Works to Address It
- Lydia Cotter

- Oct 7
- 4 min read
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Youâre Not Broken â Your Body Is Changing Predictably
If youâve looked down lately and thought, âWhere did this belly come from?â youâre not alone.
Every week in my clinic I hear:
âIâm eating well, exercising, doing everything the same â but my weight keeps creeping up around my middle. Whatâs wrong with me?â
Hereâs the truth: nothing is wrong with you.
Your body is responding exactly as biology designed it to. The âmenopause bellyâ isnât a willpower issue â itâs biochemistry.
During perimenopause and menopause, your hormones shift in ways that change how your body stores fat, uses energy, and maintains muscle. Understanding this science helps you work with your body â not against it.
âïžÂ Whatâs Really Happening:
As oestrogen declines, your body redistributes fat â moving it from your hips and thighs to your abdomen. This is not just about how you look â itâs about how your metabolism and inflammation change.
There are two types of belly fat to understand:
Subcutaneous fat:Â the soft fat under the skin (the âmuffin topâ).
Visceral fat:Â the deeper fat surrounding your organs. This type is more inflammatory and increases risk for insulin resistance, heart disease, and fatigue.
Research shows that visceral fat doubles after menopause â even if the number on the scale doesnât change. This is why women say, âMy weight is the same, but my shape feels completely different.â
đŹÂ The Hormonal Chain Reaction
Three main factors drive these changes:
Falling oestrogen â shifts fat storage to the abdomen and slows metabolism.
Loss of muscle â reduces your resting energy burn, so you gain fat more easily.
Stress and poor sleep â elevate cortisol, the hormone that stores more fat around the belly.
These changes can feel frustrating â but once you understand whatâs happening, you can take steps to rebalance your body and feel more like yourself again.
đȘÂ What Actually Works â Backed by Science and Clinical Results
1ïžâŁÂ Resistance Training (2â3x per week)
Strength training is non-negotiable once you hit over 35 years old and throug the transition of perimenopause and post menopause. Research shows that consistent resistance training:
Reduces visceral fat and improves body composition.
Boosts energy and mood.
Helps maintain muscle, bone density, and metabolism.
This doesnât mean heavy lifting in a gym (unless you want to!) â resistance bands, Pilates, or bodyweight exercises can all help rebuild lean muscle.
2ïžâŁÂ Protein with Every Meal
Protein becomes more important than ever.
Aim for ~30g per meal and 15g per snack to stabilise blood sugar, reduce cravings, and protect your muscle mass. Protein is also so important to build muscle mass that rapidly is lost during perimenopause and menopause.
Great sources: eggs, Greek yoghurt, fish, legumes, chicken, nuts, seeds, or a quality protein smoothie.Studies show women who increase protein intake have better energy, improved weight stability, and stronger bones.
3ïžâŁÂ Plant-Forward, High-Fibre Nutrition
Whole, colourful plant foods reduce inflammation and balance hormones naturally.
Aim for 35â40g of fibre per day from vegetables, fruits, legumes, nuts, and seeds. Fibre helps detoxify excess oestrogen, supports healthy gut bacteria, and keeps digestion and bowels regular.
4ïžâŁÂ Sleep, Stress & Hormone Support
Cortisol (your stress hormone) and poor sleep make fat loss nearly impossible.Try:
Setting a 10pm bedtime (sleep not laying in bed on your phone).
A nightly wind-down (magnesium, L-theanine, calming herbal tea (lemon balm or chamomile are my faves), journaling, or meditation).
Sunlight exposure (vitamin D and melatonin from the sun are powerhouses to help our hormones and mood.
đ« What Doesnât Work â and Why It Fights Your Bodyâs Natural Changes
In my clinic, I see so many women frustrated because the old methods that used to work in their 30s no longer deliver results. Hereâs why:
1ïžâŁ Starving Yourself or Extreme Calorie Restriction
When you under-eat, your body shifts into metabolic conservation mode. This means:
Your thyroid slows down
You lose more muscle (which burns calories at rest)
Your body stores more fat as a survival mechanism
Women who chronically restrict calories often feel colder, more fatigued, and gain belly fat more easily once they start eating normally again.
â Solution:Â nourish, donât deprive. Eat enough protein, fibre, and good fats to fuel your metabolism and stabilise hormones. Plus addressing the nervous system so it feels safe not in fight, flight, freeze mode. AND minimising any inflammation.
2ïžâŁ Ignoring Stress and Sleep
No nutrition plan can outwork chronic stress or sleep deprivation. High cortisol disrupts oestrogen, progesterone, and insulin balance â three key hormones for metabolism and skin health.
â Solution:Â prioritise recovery, rest, and nervous system balance as much as nutrition.
3ïžâŁ Quick-Fix Diets and Detoxes
Juice cleanses, fasting extremes, and âdetox teasâ create blood sugar instability and nutrient depletion, which raise stress hormones and worsen hormonal symptoms.
â Solution:Â focus on long-term nourishment through whole foods, fibre, protein, antioxidants and hydration to naturally support detox pathways.
4ïžâŁ Overdoing Cardio
Endless high-intensity cardio can increase cortisol and worsen muscle loss. This combination tells your body to store more abdominal fat and hold onto energy.
â Solution: balance your training â combine resistance workouts with gentle, restorative movement (walking, yoga, swimming, bike riding, dancing, stretching). đżÂ The Mindset Shift That Changes Everything
Your body isnât failing you â itâs evolving. Once you stop blaming yourself and start supporting your biology, the changes become manageable â and even empowering.
I see it every week: when women understand that their menopause symptoms are predictable and fixable, everything shifts. They stop punishing their bodies and start rebuilding strength, calm, and energy.
âšÂ Want to Work With Your Body, Not Against It?
At Your Health Revolution, I help women navigate perimenopause and menopause using evidence-based nutrition, functional testing, and lifestyle strategies that restore balance from the inside out.
đ  Join the Hormone Harmony Program â a step-by-step approach to:
â Â Balance hormones naturally
â Â Reduce bloating and belly fat
â Â Rebuild energy and calm mood
â Â Restore confidence in your body
Join the next program here or book in to see me for a 60 minute initial naturopathy appointment today

Your body isnât broken â itâs just changing. And with the right support, you can feel strong, clear, and energised again.
By Lydia Cotter, Clinical Integrated Naturopath â Your Health Revolution







You have been a life saver for both Christina and I. This information was so beneficial. Thank you. đ„°
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